Malta's Invisible Daughters
Before Malta decriminalised homosexuality in 1973, queer women lived erased and invisible. Explore the impact of British colonial laws on generations of Maltese women.
Why "We've Always Been a Safe Space" Just Means "Don't Ask Questions"
"We're already a safe space." That's what the venue told us when we offered bobu training. I looked around. No visible signs. No clear protocols. Just vibes and good intentions. "So how do people know?" I asked. "Oh, we've
Your Child Came Out. Here's What Matters Now.
Every second you spend "processing" is a second they're wondering if home is safe anymore. Your child trusted you with something huge - their identity, their truth, their life. Every moment you hesitate, minimise, or doubt sends a message louder than words: "You're
The LGBTQ+ Guide to Safety in Relationships
LGBTQ+ relationships face unique challenges that make emotional safety both critical and fragile. From identity manipulation to outing threats, red flags can be hard to spot. This guide covers warning signs specific to our community, plus practical strategies for building safe relationships
Welcome to the bobu arena
This isn’t a blog for safe little tips or polite conversations. In the bobu Arena, we call it like it is. Fear, harm, and neglect are real and waiting for someone else to fix them isn’t an option. Step in. Speak up. Take control.